Don’t forget our “Sacred Duty”
Last week a jury in Maine deliberated and found a verdict against a Lewistown, Maine, funeral home and its owner. Here’s what the website CentralMaine.com said of the deliberations, “A jury awarded Marielle Bischoff-Wurstle, 34, of Falmouth, $5.5 million Friday as compensation for significant emotional damage suffered because her father’s body was left to decompose for weeks in the basement of the funeral home last year.”
According to the same publication, which you can read here, the verdict damages awarded to the plaintiff were more than asked for. Here is what the publication reported, “Bischoff-Wurstle had asked for $5 million. The jury came back from deliberations shortly before 2 p.m. and awarded that amount plus $500,000 more.”
Funeral Director Daily take: Funeral Director Daily generally reports on the business of death care. I’m not particularly interested in reporting on bad things that have been done by funeral directors or pre-need representatives, nor do I believe my readers are all that interested in reading about these issues.
However, it is pretty fair to say that when I am searching for story lines for Funeral Director Daily I find what, in my opinion, is way too many stories of this kind.
It’s made me think back to my early days of funeral service when I was informed that as funeral directors we have a “Sacred Duty” to perform our jobs with all possible dignity. When I look up the definition of “Sacred Duty” is says “Something that is “sacred” is believed to be holy and to have a special connection with God” . And, “Duty” is work that you have to do for your job.”
To me there was nothing so “sacred” as that dead human body being in my care. It was just drilled into me and my Christian faith compounded that reverence. I understand that not every funeral director comes from the same denomination of faith as I do, but the words “Do unto others as you would like them to do unto you” also served me at that time.
In other words, you did not have to be religious to understand the importance of taking care of that dead human being that had been entrusted to you.
It pains me when I see articles like the one I reference in today’s blog post. Families are entrusting us to care for their loved ones. . . .and we must give that care. . . even when no one else is looking. It is our oath.
I’m sorry for today’s blog. It is probably one many of you don’t tune in here to read. However, if funeral directors are not going to be respectful, how will we carry on our duties? And, it should also be noted that if we see one of our colleagues having a tough time — mentally, physically, or addictive — we have an obligation as human beings to reach out and help.
More news from the world of Death Care:
- Local therapy dog comforting families in their time of loss. The Daily Record (WA)
- Fond du Lac band commemorates new cemetery after graves desecrated in road project. Minneapolis Star Tribune (MN)
- Unlocking private Gilded Age mausoleums @ Woodland Cemetery. New York Adventure Club (NY)
- Webster photographer explores cemeteries as places of healing and comfort. Democrat and Chronicle (NY)
- Dearly Departed exhibit will feature new additions at Jersey County Historical Society. Riverbender.com (IL)
- Funeral home purchases building in Norco. The Advocate (LA)
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